There is a certain elegance to a general theory of reincarnation; think of it as a form of cosmic recycling that never wastes anything. I sometimes call it the Law of Conservation of Spirit, echoing a law of physics. But is it accurate?
I have only my experiences to go on, of course, but my answer would be no. What I believe to be my own rebirth was a matter of choice based on my early death in Victorian times. I was not joined by most of the members of my family, who were satisfied to remain on the other side and exert their influence from there. Having enjoyed the opportunity to develop my talents to their fullest on this occasion, I will be happy to be reunited with my family for good when the time comes.